The seven patterns

Discover yours

Read each line. How much does it sound like you? There are no wrong answers.

"I rehearse worst-case scenarios in my head, even when nothing is wrong."

Not meVery much me

"I measure how I'm doing by looking at the people around me."

Not meVery much me

"I speak to myself more harshly than I would to anyone else."

Not meVery much me

"I push hard things out of mind instead of facing them."

Not meVery much me

"I shape what I say and do around keeping other people happy with me."

Not meVery much me

"Unless something is done flawlessly, it doesn't feel finished."

Not meVery much me

"I wait to feel ready, and end up putting off what I know I should do."

Not meVery much me